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Wednesday, 06 January 2010

  • ignore this post.

    GET OFF THE COUCH AND GET INVOLVED!

     

    Introduction

     

    •Gotta have this… Need to have that…

      Son, take out the garbage… In a minute, Dad.

    •Newsweek & Generation Me
    •How? Why? And a

      Solution.

     

    "generation me"

     

    •Define “Generation Me”…
    – What you want is what you get
    – Lazy, Lazy, Lazy...
    – Your wish, is my command
    •How is it hurting you now?
    •How will it hurt you in the future?
     
    get involved
     
    •Get a Job!
    •Volunteer your time
    •Ask your Parents how you can help out
     
    conclusion
     

    Parents aren’t asking you to give up being a kid, they’re just asking you to stop being so lazy and selfish.

Monday, 10 August 2009

  • Sweet Guy Meets Girl - And She's a Bitch

    So after attending a leadership seminar with my band, it dawned on me that I rarely give people a chance if they don't make a good impression on me right away. So, in my efforts to try and give people a chance, I was thinking about one of the guys that I had a very good lead that he had a major crush on me. Meanwhile, I was a complete and total heinous witch to him. I never gave him a shot - but after thinking about it, said guy was such a sweetheart to me, always so caring and kind. It actually started to give in to me that I, to an extent, liked him, too. I mean, he's the kind of guy I'm in to... However, the reason that I didn't give him a chance wasn't because he gave me a bad impression, but because he was, for lack of a better word, nerdy and no one else liked him. I didn't give him a chance because no one else did. I didn't like him because no one else did. I didn't think he was allowed to have a girlfriend because no one else did. (For those of you that are just like "OMG! Bitch!" I've already told myself that I am, and I've already realized that I am shallow... and I feel terrible.)
    Needless to say, I had no way of contacting him (I had his phone number until mine went caput and I lost all of my numbers). So I looked him up on facebook (oh facebook, how I love thee)... and LO! I found him. I am currently waiting for him to accept my friend request, as well, I am currently fearing that he might not forgive how much of a bitch I was to him.
    He's such a nice guy, and I don't want to just date him or anything, even though we all know how nice that would be, I really, truly at the moment, just want him to be my friend. I wouldn't forgive me... But do you think maybe he will?

    Ps. What kind of gave it away that he likes me is that he nonchalantly bought me a drink, claiming that he didn't want to charge only $3 for his own... so he charged $6 and bought mine too. It was cute :]

Monday, 27 July 2009

  • Currently
    Battlefield
    By Jordin Sparks
    see related

    Does the girl code apply to gay guys?

    Before I write my next blog, I was wondering if the girl code applied to gay guys. I don't see why not, due to the fact that gay guys, most often, have as much estrogen [if not more] as the average girl. So would it apply?

    For the [somewhat legit] Code, according to urban dictionary, see below:

    1. Girl Code
    The code of guidelines that are girls most obey in order not to get kicked out of the community.
    There are many opinions if the Girl Code actually exists, as well as the Guy Code.
    1) If you change boyfriends so fast they rarely achieve name status, a man must be around for at least six weeks before you make your friends bother to learn his first name. Until such time, he should be referred to as "The boy" or "That guy".

    2) All girls must have a "Mr.Right Now". This is the guy friend who is always ready and available to hang out with you, and may or may not like you as more than a friend. He is always ready to party till dawn, and do things you wish you didn't remember in the morning. He's not “Mr. Right,” but he may be good enough to be “Mr. Right Now.”

    3) If you just met a guy and know absolutely nothing about him, but need to refer to him during 'girl talk' you use one example of who he is, something he has, or what he does, and he becomes... that guy.
    (Ex. "The Camaro guy", "The Trainer dude", "The Four a.m. in the Taxi Guy")

    4) Every girl must wait at least a day and a half before calling a guy whose number she has retrieved.

    5) You are never in any case to date a friends ex or a guy who she was really into.
    Exception: If he's one of those guys who every girl likes.

    6) You are to never diss a friends boyfriend except to agree lightly or nod when she says he's being a asshole. In most cases it is easier to nod.
    Exception: If a guy cheated or dumped your friend it is exceptional for you to claim he isn't good enough, and that she deserves better as well as reminding her that he was an asshole anyway.

    7) If you want to date a friends brother it is required that you get said friends permission.

    8) No girl is to ever hang out with the boyfriend of a friend without the friend present. If permission to is granted their should be at least 3 other people with you.

    9) No girl may have more than one 'Love of her Life' at one time, though having a boyfriend and a 'Love of her Life' is fine.

    10) No girl shall wear the same outfit or perfume as a friend is they will knowingly be in the same place.

    11) No girl shall purchase a distinctive item of clothing which she is aware her friend owns without express permission from the friend.

    12) No girl shall borrow an item of clothing without asking the clothing owner's permission, unless both parties have made an official decision to waive this rule in the context of their friendship.

    13) An eye for an eye and a foot for a foot. If a friend borrows an item of clothing and destroys it, said friend must repay it.

    14) The penalty for exposing a secret to an unauthorized party shall be exile from Girlville.

    15) A girl who can substantially claim that she was not aware that a piece of information was a secret at the time she exposed it shall not be subject to punishment.

    16) Inside jokes are not to be explained to outsiders.

    17) Always leave a man wanting more but don't leave him guessing too long since guys do not take hints easily.

    18) If a guy your friend is into asks for your number, you are to deny it and walk away, and/or slip him your friends number while saying, "I think she is more your type, you should call her".

    19) Chicks before Dicks. Simple.

    20) In a case where a friend spreads a horrible rumor about a friend, and than apologizes they are to be given the cold-shoulder for at least 3 days.

    21) In a fight between a friend and her boyfriend you must always choose your friends side.

    22) When dating a girl should find equal and/or enough time to still hang out with her girls.

    23) Never insult your friend but never let your friend leave the house looking hideous. Find a better way to tell your friend how they look.
    Ex: 'I think your other jeans are nice', 'You should wear less eyeliner, you have great eyes'.

    24) When a friend is drunk, never allow her to dial, drive or leave with a random guy.

    25) When a friend calls you up complaining about how she is drunk and can't go home you must allow her to stay at your house, without letting your parentals (if you live with them) find out.

    26) When out with the ladies, if Girl #1 points out a guy that she is interested in, Girl #2 should avoid making a beeline over to him to get his number for herself. Show some respect.

    27) When said evening is described as a "Girls’ Night Out" that means it is for GIRLS ONLY. Consider it payback for all those tree houses and snow forts we couldn't’t enter as children. Do not invite your boyfriend.

    28) Stop being the "Me too!" girl If your friend is telling a story, stop stealing her thunder – and her story – by constantly trying to one-up her.     For example:
    GIRL 1: I had a horrible day. My flat iron broke in the middle of straightening, I dropped my brand new bottle of Burberry Touch on the bathroom floor, I missed the bus by two seconds and was late for school, my teacher yelled at me for something Sally did, and I got into a fight with Jason over whose family we’re spending Thanksgiving with.
    GIRL 2: Oh that’s horrible. The same thing happened to me today, only I stepped in gum on the subway platform too. And when I went to scrape it off, I tripped and ripped my stockings and it reminded me of the time I was at my ex-boyfriend’s place for Christmas...

    29) Be a responsible friend and not a 'Yes-Girl'. If a friend is asking you if she should get back together with her ex who cheated on her, never wanted to hang out with her and then blamed her for them breaking up, and you say 'Yes', than you're a bad friend. Friends are supposed to protect and help friends. SO say your part even if they don't like what you have to say.

    30) Don't be a hater. If a girl walks in looking gorgeous, girls automatically try to find something bad about her. But who knows? She could have just lost a friend, or got dumped, etc. So be nice and stop hating.

    31) Don't go against the Girl Code.
     
    The one that I will be addressing in my next entry will be number 7. Until then, TMF.

Wednesday, 24 June 2009

  • I'm 16 and I think I'm in love with a college student

    Alright, its pretty self explanitory.

    I'm 16 years old, about to be a senior in high school, so I'm on the verge of trying to find the college that I'm going to in the future. Recently I attended a three day camp with the University of _____________*. It was three short days, but I met some incredible people and ambassadors (definition - representative of the school).

    Upon arriving, I met one of the said ambassadors and he was genuinely nice - to me. I'm not sure what it was about him, but I think I literally fell in love in a matter of 72 hours.
    Long story short: We met. He held my hand in the shake a little bit longer than the rest, he smiled a whole lot more with me. We went bowling that night and instead of playing with the rest of the ambassadors played on the lane next to mine, showing off.° The next day, he made it an effort to sit near me during lunch. The next day he woke me up with the camp director and lingered outside of my room until I closed my door with a big smile.

    So... I mean, I can't even describe how I felt about him. Methinks he was attracted to me. Me-also-thinks the signs were there. Were the signs there? Is it okay for me to like a guy so much older than me? Should I act upon anything? Comments, please :]


    * Blank for my safety
    ° He used his last name for the bowling name, which, I think was a sign. Haha, maybe not. So I added him on facebook that way. Is that stalkerish?

Wednesday, 03 June 2009

  • didn't think I'd catch that love bug again :S

    So, here for a while I have been completely over that guy. As well, I noticed that I put him on the highest pedestal in the world, and now I am noticing everything that I should have hated. I am over him, and it was a total sigh of relief.
    However relieved I am, I still like to try and find someone to swoon after. I'm not boy crazy, I just like to like someone. Keeps me from going crazy.
    I've actually started to become very fond of this boy, "Patrick". When I gained my sigh of relief, I think I also gained some confidence. So I asked my friend if he could ask Patrick if he liked me back (this was after me going round and round with my friend about my being terrified of rejection and my friend telling me to get over it and just let him ask >_<).
    So, he asked. And this is how the conversation ran: (its quite short)
    Friend: Heya!
    Patrick: Who is this?
    F: Frankie.
    P: Oh.
    F: So, I have this feeling that you like Charlie... do you?
    P: Just as a friend.
    F: Oh.
    P: Yeah. Bye.

    The next day, I was walking with Patrick and he said, "Frankie texted me yesterday." and I said, "Oh? What did he have to say?" I played dumb, I didn't want him to feel awkward. "He was just like 'Hey.'" I kept playing dumb. "How did he even get your phone number?" "He said he stole it from your phone." "Oh, hmm. I'll have to punish him later, haha. He just said 'Hey.'? That's weird. What a strange little character." "Yeah it was weird."

    That was literally the entire conversation between him and I. He never mentioned the question and what not. I'm actually a bit curious as to what that means. It might just be me overanalyzing (I tend to do that), but I'm just curious. Input?

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